Things were going SO well. You had been exercising regularly, eating right, building habits, and building SERIOUS momentum…and then life throws you a curve ball:
- You slip a disc in your back
- You tear a ligament in your knee
- You get sick or diagnosed with some illness
- You sprain your ankle
- Your head falls off
Today, I’m going to help you keep the momentum you’ve worked so hard to build, stay on target, and allow yourself the time to rehab so that you can hit the ground running when your body is ready.
Think of this like your emergency “What to do when the wheels fall off” post.
TAKE A DEEP BREATH
First and foremost, relax.
It is NOT the end of the world.
You’re reading this, which means you’re still alive. This is a good thing. As they say, every day above ground is a good day.
So, no freaking out. No complaining. No crying over spilt milk.
No worrying about the past, as there’s nothing you can do about it, no matter how much it hurts. Rafiki from Lion King taught me that.
What’s done is done. Think of it like a video game that suddenly has the difficulty cranked to Legendary. You’re still playing, it’s just more of a challenge now.
You will overcome this obstacle. You will come out the other side a stronger, wiser, and better looking version of yourself. You will level up.
Got it? GOOD.
GET A PROPER DIAGNOSIS
First and foremost, check with your doctor or physical therapist and get a proper diagnosis.
I was an idiot and ignored multiple illnesses until I could barely walk. I thought and was told by many that maybe I was doing too much. Maybe I needed to take a break. So I stopped lifiting, stopped working out, and gained weight.
So I finally went back to Emergency.
It turns out, I have a spinal issue where my and L4, L5 and S1 vertebrae don’t line up and are pushing on my spinal cord. Had I not listened to my body I very well could have pushed myself into a very serious situation.
So, do what I did.
Get a proper diagnosis from a professional as soon as possible, and find out exactly what’s wrong, how long you can expect to be recuperating, and when you will be back to normal.
So what do you do in the mean time so that you don't gain more weight?
Focus on Diet!
We stop exercising, we start eating poorly, and the next thing we know, we’ve gained back all of the weight that we had lost.
NOT ON THIS DAY. THIS DAY, WE FIGHT (to keep that weight off)!!!
As we know our diets account for 80-90% of our success or failure when it comes to weight loss. This means that even if you cannot exercise ONE BIT, you will still be able to maintain your weight or even LOSE weight during your recovery period.
Now, the only way this will work is if you actually focus on your diet. If you can’t exercise (or have to significantly reduce your amount of exercise), then your diet immediately increases in importance.
Don’t forget, your body burns a crazy amount calories every day just by existing.
So work WITH your body.
Minimize liquid calories. Load up on veggies. Eat plenty of protein and healthy fats. Cut out refined carbs and sugar.
The more closely you can eat a healthy diet and stay on target with your eating decisions, the less chance you’ll have of gaining back weight and pushing you further back on your progress.
Yup, easier said then done when you’re lying in bed and want to eat ice cream while watching your favorite show. I never said this would be easy – nothing worth doing right IS easy.
You need to stay on target. Remember that every meal is an opportunity for you to continue your momentum and progress, or take a step further away.
The choice is yours, and yours alone.
STAY ACTIVE AS MUCH AS YOU CAN.
I HIGHLY recommend you check with your doctor or physical therapist and find out what you are capable of while injured:
If you can’t run, can you use an elliptical or stationary bike?
If you can’t use one leg or the other, can you still strength train your upper body?
If you can’t use one arm/shoulder, can you still do lower body exercises like lunges/squats/step ups?
If you can’t strength train, can you still go for walks? Walking is the best.
If your head fell off, how the hell are you reading this?
No need to play hero.
The WORST thing you can do is try to do something your body isn’t capable of and re-injuring yourself (or injuring yourself in another way).
So, find out what you’re capable of, what you can’t do, what hurts and what doesn’t, and work with your doctor/therapist to find any way to stay active. I don’t care what it is, but find a way to do something active every day.
And it’s not just because exercise (SPOILER ALERT) is good for you! It’s because if you can find a way to exercise every day, your brain will keep thinking “I am healthy” and thus you will be more likely to make eating decisions that KEEP you healthy.
Remember, diet is 90% of the battle!
I know if I skip a workout or two, I tend to eat much worse on those days because my brain isn’t thinking “healthy.”
So, keep yourself thinking healthy, find a way to be active, and make a game out of it to stay on target.
- Stuck in bed? See how many arm swings you can do.
- Can’t do jumping jacks? Do karate kicks and punches
- On crutches? See if you can “walk” a bit farther each day.
- Can’t strength train? See if you can become a better runner.
WHAT IF I AM NEVER BACK TO NORMAL?
Unfortunately, sometimes you might get an injury in which your training path is permanently altered.
When I found out about my back and that I would probably never be able to lift heavy weights again, I was devastated. It has really taken the breath out of me to realize this could be a reality. So instead of dwelling on it. I am focusing on other things that will give me the benefits I want but also something that maybe I can love just as much. Luckily, I had a talk with a client of mine that loves to run. And thought to myself... hmmm maybe thats an option for me to work towards. I've never been good at running...so challenge accepted (when I am cleared to of course).
So if this happens to be you, remember first and foremost that you woke up today, and that we can build on that.
The game has just changed a bit, which means you need to change too.
Change is good.
SET PROPER EXPECTATIONS
This part is all mental.
Depending on the severity of your injury, you might get set back a few weeks/months in training. If it’s a permanent change, you may have to make permanent adjustments to your routine.
You might not be able to lift, run, or stretch in the same ways right away. Even when you come back to full strength, it can be really frustrating.
“I used to be able to do this!” “Why can’t I ___________ anymore?”
Just like comparing yourself against the progress of others is a futile practice, comparing yourself to the old pre-injury version of yourself isn’t smart.
The ONLY thing you can compare yourself against is who you were yesterday. Think of it like hitting the reset button and starting a new game or rolling a new character.
If you went from deadlifting 350 before your injury and now you’re back at 150….stop worrying about the 350, and instead next week aim for 155. THAT IS PROGRESS!!
If you weighed 200 before the injury and 220 after the injury…getting down to 219 is one pound lost, not playing 19 pounds of catch-up!
If you could run a mile in 7 minutes before and now it’s 9 minutes, next week’s 8:50 mile should be a celebration, not a disappointment.
Understand that the process might take time, but also understand that you’re a freaking superhero capable of amazing things, even when you’re told otherwise.
Write your own destiny. Chose to be awesome.
THIS TOO SHALL PASS
You’re gonna be okay, I promise.
Hit that reset button, and focus on building up a new version of you starting NOW.
I’d love to hear from you. Have you been injured in the past? Are you struggling with this right now? How did you overcome that injury and get back on track? How can I help out?
I know a lot of injured people could benefit from the education, motivation, and inspiration from knowing they’re not alone in their frustration and confusion.
Get well soon, and kick ass!